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You may
well say, "I recognize that before one can command the respect of an
audience he must gain
self-respect; but
where do I find a
place to practice?' Well, learning to swim means finding a swimming
hole.
Learning public speaking
means finding
a meeting. Either instance requires a bit
of initiative. Where are the practice fields?
Luncheon
Clubs etc
Luncheon
clubs, lodge meetings, military orders, and community gatherings, afford
any ambitious speaker ample opportunity to be heard.
P.T.A
Since
the school gives parents the first
sense of community life and orients them socially, the P.T.A. is a primary starter
for making speeches
Toastmasters
International
Toastmasters
International of Rancho, Santa Margarita, California, is dedicated to helping any
person improve themselves
as a speaker. This non-profit
organization
has
11,700
clubs in 92 countries and nearly 235,000
members. These
groups meet weekly and according
to their slogan, every member should talk, however
briefly, at every meeting.
Dale
Carnegie Institute
College
extension courses are available, but bear in mind that an
ounce of practice is
better than a pound of correspondence.
The Dale Carnegie Institute recognizes that "practice
makes
perfect," and energetically seeks placements for its pupils as public speakers.
Civic
and Service Club Forums
Public
speakers became a scarce commodity during World War
II. This was
particularly true in smaller cities and
non-university towns. Kiwanis Clubs solved that problem
according to O. D. Peterson,
Secretary of Kiwanis International
in Chicago, by looking for talent right in their own back
yards. They found
certain members could express themselves
well on certain subjects, and only needed encouragement.
This practice of
encouraging speaking talent within the
Club has become a permanent policy.
Rotary
International of Evanston, Illinois, according to Russell
Perry, urges its clubs to
use local (club) talent whenever
possible. Many
chapters
assign to their own
members the task
of making commemorative addresses for near
and dear ones—Mothers' Day, Fathers' Day, etc., and for observing birthdays of
famous men.
And Finally Invite Feedback
Debating
Societies and the Toastmasters' members are evaluators of other members.
They observe poor speaking habits and distracting
mannerisms and point them
out. These
evaluations by fellow
members go far in removing any
awkward, self-conscious ill-at-ease manner that might embarrass both
you and
your audience when you get up to talk.
If you can't prevail upon one of these evaluators to hear you speak your piece,
pick a member of your
family or
a close friend to hear you
out and criticize your efforts
Summary
Be
creative in
finding your practice fields. Like any skill, the more often you
practice the faster you will become skilled in public speaking. Honest
and constructive
feedback will also help you master the fundamentals, if you receive it
with an open mind and see it as an opportunity for improvement.
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